WHY? The brain wants to know what to do so if you don’t know what to do with the problem you are having with your partner you won’t like them, the brain has to protect self so by not liking someone we start to put our bubble around yourself.
“Work on the Problem Not Each Other”
You have to keep looking in the same direction, develop a shared vision and purpose and ask the question, “Why are we together?”
So without being intentional we will hurt each other.
Warlike, aggressive, self centered, easily interested in groups and will change on a dime with group influence. So you have to decide what influence you want on your relationship with yourself and with others.
Require and upgrade in your relationship roadmap.
For example “I learn to not do things that remind you of how I hurt you.”
“should know how to do relationships.”
Kris Steinbeck
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